Relationship Course: Cultivating better understanding, empathy and kindness between couples
Date: 1 – 22 Jul 2023 (four Saturdays)
Time: 3 – 5PM
Venue: The Buddhist Library
(Update as of 22 Jun) Limited, additional slots available. Click to register.
About this program
Character changes, beauty does not last, wealth and social status are not guaranteed for life. So how do couples in a long-term relationship (including marriage) stay happy and committed to each other, and remain motivated to see each other through thick and thin? Is love enough? Does intelligence, wealth and beauty play an important part in a relationship?
Research has shown that happily married couples are neither smarter, richer, more attractive nor more psychologically astute than other couples. Instead, couples that stay happily married are those who have somehow hit a right dynamic that keeps negative thoughts about each other from overwhelming the positive thoughts. Is it that simple? Yes, but getting the right dynamics require, amongst other things, a right moral attitude, right effort and right understanding. These qualities are skills that can be learned, practiced and maintained throughout a relationship.
This experiential workshop, which is based on dhamma concepts, will provide you and your partner with the right knowledge and tools to help both of you adapt to change, improve communication and understanding, in order to attain the right dynamics in your relationship, and cultivate joy, peace and contentment.
Who is this program for?
Open to all couples (including long-married couples, couples who are planning to marry, those who have just started a relationship, etc.)
What are the sessions like?
Typical sessions would include teaching, reflective exercises as well as Q&A.
About the facilitator

Sister Foo Siew Fong
Sis Siew Fong PBM is a lawyer by profession and a partner with Harry Elias Partnership. She is listed as a Preeminent Lawyer in the Doyles Guide for Singapore Family & Divorce Leading Lawyers (2016 – 2022). Sis Siew Fong is well-regarded for having led many good dhamma courses in Singapore and has a Postgraduate Diploma and Master of Arts in Buddhist Studies from the University of Kelaniya.
What past participants say
“The course is short yet very impactful.. the concepts learned from class have permeated all our discussions and prevented them from turning into hurtful arguments that we have to recover from. [The course] has laid foundations of the sweet and smooth relationship we have.” – Lea & Eng Wei
“We have been married for over 30 years but this course is able to help us identify what are solvable and unsolvable issues in our marriage. This lessen areas of disputes for a more harmonious relationship” – Pauline & Kim Huat
“We are minded that managing a successful marriage needs accepting different points of view and attitudes without prejudice and judgement”
– Corina and William
